Sometimes, the road ahead is blocked, but clearing the way becomes part of the journey. Learn to tell when it’s time to let go, to surrender, to search for another road, a different path, another dream. But also tell, when it’s time to move forward, through obstacles if need be, because the dream is electric, charged by Divine energy and love. Melody Beattie
I’ve purged, and purged, given items away, had garage sales and dropped off garbage bag after garbage bag of clothes, books and random household stuff. The hard reality is I am not even close to being where I need to be.
Let’s talk clothes.
I am not an aggressive shopper, I like a new skirt or pair of shoes but shopping is not how I fill my free time. It’s why it is easy for me to live in a town that does not have a mall, at least not the kind of mall most of America would consider worthy. Our mall here has ONE clothing store (JC Penny’s) and the boutique shops downtown generally are priced higher than I am usually willing to pay for clothing, as a matter of fact some of my favorite clothes were a thrift store score.
Folding a recent load of laundry the reality set in that I still have way too much clothing for a tiny house closet. I want plenty of time to experience living in a minimalist fashion before moving in so that I have one less adjustment to make. Curious as to where I really stand with clothing I took inventory and it looks like this;
Hoodies (9), Fleece (5), T-shirts (30), Long Sleeve T-shirts (20),Sweaters (18), Sweatshirts (2), Tank tops (16), Shorts (12), Shoes (27), Skirts (17), Dresses (3), Jackets (7), Coats (7), Hats (9), Scarves (23), Belts (9), Yoga Clothes (23), Workout clothes (5), Pajamas (5), Jeans (7), Capris (6), Slacks (10), Tights (9), Winter Layers (6), Blouses (24), Vests (4), Jackets (7), Coats (7) … God forbid, have I missed anything?
That totals up to 312 pieces of clothing, after what I thought was downsizing. This has me seriously looking at my lifestyle and what clothing I need to support the life I actually live. Twenty seven pairs of shoes … there is no way I will be able to store that collection in the tiny!
I have to keep coming back, and keep coming back to my WHY. Why am I taking such a hard look at my belongings and my life. It is a growth process of figuring out what I value the most and removing anything that distracts me from those values. I remind myself that minimizing my belongings is not about what is being taken away, but more about what it will add to my life.
It’s the Christmas season and a tough time of year to buck the powerful system of consumerism that is prevalent in our country. I had to take my fast growing teen son out to get some clothes today. We dropped off bags of our discards at a local thrift store and went inside. He found 3 pairs of pants that fit perfectly, were stylish, and cost us all of $10. I managed to peruse the racks of clothing and found several items that were loudly calling my name, but I remembered the bags we had just dropped off and the 312 pieces of clothing still in my closet and walked away feeling mighty about resisting the urge to buy.
I am challenging myself to a ban on buying (except for gifts for others), and will let you know how long I last before some material item causes me to spend. It won’t be long until spring and then the tiny house buying spree begins!
Thank you to those of you who are reading, commenting and encouraging me … I need you! There will be more updates as I to learn to let go (220 items and counting) as I march towards the tiny house.
Enjoy the Trek, and Love Abundantly.